Framing Values into Our Kids
Introduction:
Is there any truth to Proverbs 22:6? Sometimes we look at younger generations & wonder if godly values have to the wayside. We need to be reminded that godly values are relevant for everyday & age. We don’t need a new set of moral standards & guidelines – we just need a return to what God said all along. Instilling these values into children is the responsibility of the parents. (Eph. 6:4; Col. 3:20-21) Parents help w/the most important part of the structure – the framework for life. Parents will be held responsible for the way they build! (Eli – 1 Sam. 3:12-13) Let’s go over 4 suggestions that will help your children build a strong moral foundation for life.
I. Remember…now is the time to start.
Children begin learning at the moment they are born.
From their youngest years – children respond mentally to things they see/hear. See Deut. 6:5-7
Psa. 127:1-5 – Children are a heritage from God. A reward.
Children must be molded & shaped if they are to fly right!
II. Teach them godly morals & values.
Children need to learn the need for respect.
Eph. 6:1-3; Col. 3:20 – parents & grandparents.
Rom. 13:1-7 – government; 2 Pet. 2:13-20 – all people.
Children need to learn about humility. Phil. 2:4-9
Children need to learn to be thankful for what they have.
This is expected! Col. 3:15; Psa. 50:14a; 1 Thess. 5:18; Eph. 5:20
Teach them about character & integrity.
1 Tim. 1:5 – this is the goal of Christianity!
To be above reproach; blameless; w/o a hint of dishonor.
Teach them to begin the day w/recognition of God. Psa. 118:24
III. Children need to learn responsibility.
It is man’s responsibility to work for him, provide for himself. Gen. 3:19
See also Eph. 4:28; 1 Thess 4:11-12; 1 Tim. 5:8
Our children must know they are responsible for their actions before God. Ezek 18:20, 30
1 Cor. 3:8; Rev. 2:23b; Gal. 6:5
Challenge your children w/tasks that help them learn responsibility.
Expect the best. Expect them to succeed. Help them succeed by equipping them with the tools to succeed.
Help them pursue excellence – never do anything half heartedly.
Eph. 6:6-8; esp. Col. 3:23-24
IV. You set the example. Walk by the Precepts You Teach.
What made Paul an effective preacher? Teacher? Apostle?
1 Cor. 11:1; Phil. 3:17; 2 Thess. 3:9
Parents – your children are looking to you for leadership.
Phil. 4:9 – can you tell your children to do this?
Conclusion:
Psa. 127:3-5 – children are a blessing from God.
Mold & shape the lives of your children so that they’ll fly right!